“I don’t want to be at the mercy of my emotions. I want to use them, to enjoy them, and to dominate them.”  ― Oscar Wilde, The Picture of Dorian Gray Hi. Confession time – speaking up and diving into messy feelings? Not my favorite cup of tea. Emotions? Kind of icky, right? They just seem to complicate things and throw a curveball into the smooth ride of relationships. My go-to strategy? Keep it in, wear that “everything is okay” mask, and echo the Thai wisdom of “Sabai Sabai,” tranquility on the surface. Guess what? This thinking isn’t just an Eastern thing. […]